My parents didn’t want anything to do with a smart home — here’s the gadgets that changed their mind | Tom's Guide

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Using an electric screwdriver, I carefully install the body plate of a smart lock on my parents’ front door. My dad looks on, visibly annoyed. He is just 50 years old and far from the opposite of tech-savvy. That said, you’d think he came from the Silent Generation with the way he dismisses any gadget that doesn’t stream TV or video games. “Do I really need to lock my door with a voice command? How lazy does one have to be to flip a light switch or use a key?” he asks.

Most people would agree that if something isn’t broken, don’t fix it. For many, the idea of a smart home is seen as a complex and expensive endeavor that doesn’t initially click to save a few seconds of time. But with today’s advanced features and ease of setup, that’s simply not the case. As a Gen Z kid who grew up with the internet, adding smart lighting or security cameras to rooms came naturally to each apartment I’ve ever lived in. I can remember my excitement as a college freshman returning to my first apartment with the original Google Home speaker and some smart light strips.

Looking back, I realize that I’ve never had the perspective of upgrading an existing long-term living space, which is where hurdles arise for many transitioning into a smart home. And while I’m passionate about all of the potential these gadgets bring, it’s easy for others to boil smart home down to a reductive view of fancy color-changing lights or a remote-controlled thermostat.

To me, a smart home is about saving time, fully customizing my living space and monitoring and controlling my home from anywhere. Here’s how I dipped my parents’ toes into setting up a smart home and eventually won them over.

The first thing I installed was security cameras and smart sensors throughout the property. This was the easiest to convince my parents of as their home has been through the ringer due to several robberies and floods. For years, they relied on contact and motion sensors exclusively tied to a contract-based home security system. When I explained that updating these sensors to smart home-friendly models could also send notifications to their phone or activate connected devices like lights, I piqued their interest.

My parents' minds were boggled when I showed them how they could use their Fire TV to control their home devices. Now, if someone rings my parents’ video doorbell, a picture-in-picture view automatically pops up on the big screen, so they can ignore it or answer while binge-watching a series.

Although I couldn’t convince my parents to ditch their home monitoring contract, I simply placed some affordable Aqara smart contact and motion sensors above the existing ones on their doors, windows and walls. This is tied to lighting automation for entryways when they walk in after dark as well as motion detection alerts even when the main security system is unarmed.

Their favorite addition was Govee’s Smart Leak sensors. These are some of the best water leak detectors for the price and I placed one wherever plumbing ran: the kitchen, bathroom, and basement near the laundry machine. For the longest time, they’d used basic water sensors that blared a loud alarm if moisture was detected. That’s fine when you’re home but, as they learned three years ago, not so useful when they were away and the dishwasher’s plumbing line broke. Smart water sensors not only produce a siren, but send a notification to their phones even if they’re away from home for faster intervention.

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Govee WiFi Water Sensor (3 Pack): was $55 now $40 @ AmazonMonitor your smart home for leaks with these connected water sensors. If they detect a drip or active water flow, these sensors can then send a real-time notification to your smartphone. This tells you which room triggered the alert so that you can locate the source and act quickly.

Currently, I’m in the process of trying to convince my parents to get one of the best smart CO2 and fire alarm setups but they refuse to replace their existing equipment. One underrated middle ground is a smart listener that can recognize alarm tones and send notifications without replacing your alarms. Some security cameras even have this listening functionality built-in so you don’t have to buy a listener at all.

Ring Battery Doorbell Pro: now $229 @ AmazonThis powerful Ring doorbell packs a higher 1536p resolution along with more advanced features. These include Bird's Eye View, Pre-Roll and 3D Motion detection using a built-in radar system. Bird's Eye View animates a person's path to and from your door atop an overhead view of your home. That way, you can see exactly where they came from and where they went after approaching your door. This Ring doorbell also captures still images throughout the day so you can see what's going on between events as well as what happened seconds before the doorbell was triggered. Lastly, the 3D motion detection scans the area for a human's presence to cut down false events like a blowing tree branch.

Security cameras are an easy way to add eyes everywhere and can be tied into other connected gadgets like smart sprinklers and lights to respond to motion events. I started them off with one of the best video doorbells, the Ring Video Doorbell Pro, so that they could see and respond to visitors at their porch since it offered Birds Eye View tracking and color night vision.

At the same time, we replaced the 20-something-year-old floodlight on the front of my house with the Ring Floodlight Cam (wired). The best outdoor security cameras can add more light to your driveway and provid 24/7 eyes and record events at the front of the house.

We had to dial in the motion detection zones to avoid the busy avenue as traffic and pedestrians would trigger false alerts. This camera has a clear view of all ways someone could approach. Beyond security, my parents use them as an outdoor intercom as they watch my elementary-aged sisters get on the bus in the morning or play outside from their phones or Echo Show in the kitchen.

Next, I dotted some of the best smart speakers and displays around the house. These act as the foundation for my parents to conveniently control gadgets with voice commands or view their security camera feeds. I had them opt for an Echo Show 8 in the kitchen as it’s our top pick for the best smart display with the best balance of size and features for the price.

Then we sprinkled a few 5th Gen Echo Dots through the house for intercom and voice command points in each room. These spheres are a central place to ask quick questions, listen to music and use voice commands. My parents find them helpful for relaying announcements like when dinner is ready or quickly checking on my little sisters.

Echo Show 8 (3rd Gen): now $149 @ AmazonThe Echo Show 8 is one of the best smart displays in terms of bang for your buck. Its sharp 13MP lens has a wide-angle lens that can center you when you're on video calls. Combine this with speedy performance, improved speakers and a dedicated Zigbee smart home hub and you have our favorite smart display Amazon has made at a great value.

Each of the major smart home platform’s apps (Alexa, HomeKit, and Google Home) have also made it extremely easy for anyone to control their home while away or tell their gadgets what actions to take through automation. With basic “if” and “then” building blocks you don’t need to be a programmer to tell connected devices to do something at specific times or when an event happens. For example, you might use your smart home platform to create a basic routine when you walk into a room. You just set the trigger to be when a motion sensor (one of the Echo Dots in my parent's case) detects activity, turn on the smart lights in the area, play some music on a smart speaker, and then have everything turn off on its own when you walk out of the room. Voila!

Echo Dot (5th Gen) w/ smart light bulb: was $73 now $60 @ AmazonThe 5th-Gen Echo Dot is one of the best Alexa speakers you can buy in terms of value. In our Echo Dot review, we noted it features crisp, full sound with eero built-in for better Wi-Fi coverage. There's also a room temperature sensor that can initiate certain Alexa smart home routines when your climate gets too cold or hot.

While you can control all of your devices from a smartphone, the major smart home platforms offer a TV streamer, whether its the Apple TV (which doubles as a Matter-compatible smart home hub) or Fire TV Stick. My parents happened to outfit all the biggest screens in their house with Fire TV devices over the years just to stream content. Their minds were boggled when I showed them how they could use them to monitor and control their home devices. Now, if someone rings my parents’ video doorbell, a picture-in-picture view automatically pops up on Fire TV, so they can ignore it or answer while binge-watching a series.

Amazon Fire TV Stick 4K Max: now $59 @ Amazon The Fire TV Stick 4K Max offers incredible performance and faster app load times. With support for tri-band Wi-Fi 6E, it's perfect for users with advanced routers and fast internet speeds. If you want a Fire TV streaming device, this is the one to get and it's never been cheaper.

Thankfully my parents didn’t have any complaints when I suggested adding one of the best robot vacuums I’ve tested to their one-story ranch. I chose the Roomba J9+ Combo for my parent’s home since it both vacuums and mops exceptionally well in homes with a mix of hard floors and carpets. This bot removes dirt and debris from the hardwood section while dragging a mop along the back. Once it sees carpet the mop retracts atop the J9+ like the roof of a convertible car to prevent any spills.

Roomba J9+ Combo: was $1,399 now $999 @ AmazoniRobot’s Roomba J9+ Combo is an intelligent hybrid robot vacuum that can do it all — mop, clean, and effectively map out your space. It has strong suction performance, especially on notoriously difficult carpets where it automatically optimizes its settings for the deepest clean. Plus, its mop automatically folds over the vacuum to prevent drips. The multifunctional charging dock looks like a piece of furniture complete with a display shelf on top and stores up to two months of debris.

The J9+’s self-emptying base stores up to two months of debris and has a sleek design that looks like a piece of furniture with a premium wood display shelf at the top. iRobot’s app recommends a daily cleaning schedule and is easy to customize so they don’t have to fumble around with burdensome apps or build a complex routine. Plus, this robot vacuum is smart enough to recognize and prioritize dirtier, high-traffic rooms and adjust its suction power on its own. In my J9+ Combo review, I found it set and forget, save for mop days since you have to clean this by hand after every job.

Speaking of advanced AI, I haven’t had the chance to install a smart thermostat in their home, but we have our eyes on the new Nest Learning Thermostat (4th Gen). This is not only one of the best smart thermostats, but one of the smartest devices we’ve seen since it understands your preferences and detects your presence to ensure you’re comfortable while home and turn down the system while you’re away. It can even understand how outdoor conditions like sunlight will affect your interior to keep you comfy without expending heat if it’s not needed.

Google Nest Learning Thermostat (4th Gen): was $280 now $255 @ AmazonIn our review of the new Google Nest Learning Thermostat, we appreciated its sleek new edgeless design and improved AI experience. Its ability to learn your climate habits while analyzing outdoor conditions to optimize your system on the fly makes it one of the best smart thermostats we've tested. It even offers energy monitoring and HVAC system health assessments to inform you of any issues.

While I still have to help my dad manually swap out the holiday inflatables in his yard, I’ve installed permanent outdoor smart lights that allow me to change colors and animations from my phone. Now, I don’t have to hop up on a ladder with my dad to place, swap out, and remove decorative lights each year.

For Halloween, the front of their house will flash orange and purple. The day after, my dad will simply open the Govee app and swap over to a static Thanksgiving palette of red and amber. And while the rest of the world goes crazy shopping for Black Friday morning deals, my parents can switch the lights to green and gold in time for Christmas. Throughout the rest of the year, they primarily use them as basic white light security to light up the property at night.

Govee Permanent Outdoor Lights (100 feet): now $279 @ AmazonThis one-and-done permanent outdoor light setup is worth the cost since you can adjust colors to give your home's exterior some pop all year round. You can set the LEDs to basic colors to serve as standard mood lighting or create (or use preset) animated scenes to celebrate holidays like Halloween or Christmas.

Kasa Full Color Smart Bulbs (4-Pack): was $39 now $24 @ AmazonThese customizable bulbs pump out plenty of light and can display more than 16 million colors. Just pair them with your network and you can link them up with Alexa and Google Assistant for routines or voice commands. I use mine as a DIY sunrise alarm clock, scheduling them to brighten to wake me up in the morning and gradually dimming down slowly after sunset to kickstart my sleep routine.

LIFX Smart Outdoor String Lights: $129 @ Home DepotGive your deck or patio some festive smart lighting for a chill atmosphere and improved visibility. These vivid bulbs produce some of the most vibrant colors to throw hues all over the yard. Their universal Matter support means they work across all major smart home platforms including Alexa, HomeKit, and Google for voice control and automations.

This level of versatility is weaved throughout their home with some of the best smart lights from string lights on the deck to individual bulbs inside the home. I use multicolor smart bulbs in my own apartment while playing Silent Hill 2 to turn my living room’s natural white light to a rusty orange to immerse myself further in the game’s spooky hellscape. Even if you rarely use mood lighting, the ability to adjust dimness levels opens all kinds of options like waking you up naturally to a sunrise effect in your bedroom. If you’re really creative you can flash certain colors or patterns when a sensor detects mail has been delivered or your laundry is done.

I convinced my parents to upgrade their outlets with smart plugs and power strips as a way to save money on their electric bill. I’ve already tapped on how you can have lights turn off automatically leave a room. Meanwhile, the occupancy sensors in smart thermostats can ensure an empty house isn’t heated or cooled to avoid wasting money. There are both indoor and outdoor that monitor energy usage to help you spot and turn off hidden power vampires like a printer in sleep mode

Tapo Smart Wi-Fi Outdoor Plug with Matter: was $30 now $19 @ AmazonTapo's outdoor smart plug turns a single outlet into two individually controlled smart plugs. You can turn two separate devices on or off, schedule them, or work them into smart home routines from your phone or voice assistant. Thanks to the built-in Matter support you can control it from all the major smart home platforms including Alexa, Google Home, and Apple HomeKit.

Kasa Matter Smart Plugs w/ Energy Monitoring: was $26 now $20 @ AmazonKasa's compact smart plug plays nice with all of the major smart home platforms including Apple HomeKit, Amazon Alexa, Google Home, and Samsung Smart Things. I use mine to control the "dumb" light strips under my bed. When my Echo Spot's occupancy sensor detects motion after 8 p.m., it turns them on automatically when I enter the room. You can also use these plugs with things like lamps, fans, or even your coffee maker.

The best smart plugs are an affordable way to integrate your existing appliances, lamps, and decorations into your smart home for automation and scheduling. In addition to some affordable Kasa smart plugs, I hooked my dad up with a Tapo Outdoor smart plug with two individually controlled outlets. That way, he can schedule hours for the inflatables in the yard to operate and turn them on and off remotely.

You can also use smart plugs to take your home security a step further by setting away routines that randomly turn on smart devices to make your house appear occupied. Even if you don’t have a smart TV or speaker, you can connect your basic outlet-powered gadgets to a smart plug to turn them on an off at random intervals.

One of the biggest points of friction was when I changed my parent’s original lock for a smart lock Since the biggest turnoff for them was the installation process — and the fact that they couldn’t use their existing keys — I opted for the Yale Approach conversion smart lock. Renters prefer this type of smart lock since it’s easy to install and only replaces the interior portion of your lock. This keeps the outside looking as it did and allows you to use the same keys—a non-negotiable for my folks.

Yale Approach smart lock: was $130 now $124 @ AmazonIn my Yale Approach review, I praised this model for its ease of installation since it converts the interior half of your deadbolt without replacing your exterior lock. It automatically locks and unlocks your door with accurate geofencing and works seamlessly with every major smart home system. Best of all, you can still use your original door keys.

After I quickly walked him through the app to show him how he can now lock and unlock the front door remotely from anywhere, his tone did a complete 180. Naming his home “The Love Shack” and setting its picture as a meme, he played with the lock like a kid rapidly flipping a light switch on and off and began to see the benefits. This initial resistance to infatuation cycle every time I installed a new piece of smart home technology at his house was actually eye-opening for me.

While not everyone’s running out to replace their analog setup, I think they should if they are interested. As smart home technology has matured, prices have fallen in line with those of their basic counterparts, especially with locks and lights. Thanks to the development of Matter, devices can talk across platforms, so setting up a smart home is as streamlined as scanning a QR code or opening an app from your phone to discover a device over Bluetooth with a tap. The most you’ll have to worry about is screwing in, sticking on, or standing up hardware, usually in under five minutes or less (save for a smart lock or complex lighting installation) to open up a whole new world of control and customization from anywhere even when you’re away from your property.

Hunter Fenollol is a Senior Editor for Tom’s Guide. He specializes in smart home gadgets and appliances. Prior to joining the team, Hunter reviewed computers, wearables, and mixed reality gear for publications that include CNN Underscored, Popular Mechanics, and Laptop Magazine. When he’s not testing out the latest cooking gadgets, you can likely find him playing a round of golf or out with friends feeding his paycheck to a QuickHit slot machine.Hunter started his career as an intern at Tom’s Guide back in 2019 while in college. He graduated from Long Island University Post with a degree in Communications and minor in Advertising. He has been vlogging ever since the iPhone 4 took front-facing cameras mainstream.

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