17 Best Remote Control Vibrators in 2023 That'll Spice Up the Bedroom

By Jennifer Hussein

Whether your sex life is burning hot or looking a bit dim, the best remote control vibrators can help heat things up. These high-tech vibrators, thrusters, and erogenous-zone stimulators can give you wall-clawing orgasms, no partner needed. But if you do want to add another person to the mix, these toys are a non-intimidating way to give your partner (or yourself) control in the bedroom, no matter if they're near or far.

Jess O'Reilly, PhD, a Toronto-based sexologist, says remote control vibrators are some of the most versatile sex toys on the market and can be used in endless ways to "facilitate playfulness" for the best sex ever, with or without a partner. "Not only does a remote control vibe allow you to weave eroticism throughout your day, but it often inspires you to flirt, tease, build anticipation and be more creative," she says.

Like most sex toys, you can use many of these orgasmic, remote-powered gadgets on a variety of erogenous zones, even if they're designed for a specific part of the body, according to O'Reilly. "A clitoral panty vibe can be used against the vulva, along the perineum, around the nipples, across the balls, or up and down the shaft of a penis," she says. With that being said, if a toy is made specifically for external use, don't try to insert it in any of your or your partner's orifices — that could potentially lead to injury and a mood-killing trip to the hospital.

If you'd like to experiment with some kinky BDSM play, Dr. O'Reilly recommends taking turns controlling the remote. "You'll both get the chance to tease and enjoy the thrill of anticipation," she says. "With all the options for vibration patterns and intensities, you'll always have something new to discover."

O'Reilly also notes that these toys are a sexual game-changer for long-distance couples since many of them can be controlled via smartphone apps, Wi-Fi, or Bluetooth. "With permission, you can allow your lover to connect to your toy from anywhere in the world," she says. Long-distance sex anywhere? Yes, please.

Now, it's time to spark your sexual imagination — either with a partner or when you're masturbating is your choice. Treat yourself to one (or some) of the best remote control sex toys around, below.

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Climaxing at the same time is easier than ever when the receiving partner is wearing the Lelo Tiani 3. This wearable device acts as a clitoris and G-spot vibrator that can be worn during penetrative sex, sending vibrations up your penetrating partner's penis. If neither of you has a penis, you can also use this vibrator to make hand play more intense for the receiving partner — or pair it with an insertable toy.

The Tiani 3 comes with a rechargeable wireless remote control that's controlled by a simple flick of your wrist. By tilting the remote, you can intensify any of the eight vibration patterns this toy has. Yep, getting off is really that easy.

When it comes to the Lovense Lush 3, your phone is the controller. You can access all of its unlimited vibration patterns and three intensity levels by connecting the egg vibrator to the Lovense Remote smartphone app. Once you download the app, this wireless, insertable vibrator can be used for close-range control via Bluetooth connection (hello, discreet public play), or long-distance control when connecting to Wi-Fi.

The Clandestine Devices Companion Wearable Remote Vibrator may come with what looks like your average watch at first glance, but that's actually its nifty wearable remote control. You or your partner can strap on the watch to control the accompanying panty vibe, which is whisper-quiet, features seven vibration patterns and five intensity levels, and is ergonomically shaped to comfortably hug your pelvis's natural contours.

B-Vibe's Vibrating Remote Heart Plug has to be the cutest butt plug we've ever seen, but that's not the only reason why you should check it out. Its accompanying remote can control this toy from up to 30 feet, plus it's programmed with 15 vibration patterns and six intensity levels to easily flip through. It's also worth mentioning that this anal plug's 1.45-inch diameter and four inches in length is a smaller stature that's perfect for booty play beginners.

As its name suggests, the Femme Funn Versa Bullet and Remote is a remote control bullet vibrator that can be used on any and all erogenous zones. Its wireless remote control and seven vibration modes combined are basically a one-way ticket to orgasmic solo play. It's also a USB-rechargeable option, so there's no need to stock up on AA batteries anymore.

We-Vibe's Chorus is one of the most popular couples vibrators out there (even O'Reilly is a fan). This bestseller stimulates the G-spot and clit at the same time and can be worn during penetrative sex for you and your partner to enjoy. The accompanying remote allows you to toggle through all 10 vibration settings, but what makes it especially impressive is its squeeze-triggered technology. Essentially, the tighter you squeeze the remote, the more intense the vibration becomes — it's about as effortless as it gets.

The wearable vibrator can also be linked to your or your partner's phone via the We-Connect app. This lets you and your partner play just about anywhere with Wi-Fi access, no matter how far apart you both are. Another plus about the app is that it allows you to access bonus vibration settings and customize vibration speeds and intensity to hit all the right spots exactly how you like.

Elevate your strap-on experience with the Desire by Lovehoney Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit. This high-quality kit contains everything you need, including a harness, three O-rings to secure dildos of varying sizes in place as you wear them, and a vibrating dildo. The latter has a slightly curved shape for G-spot or perineum stimulation and features two powerful motors, 12 vibration speeds, and eight patterns.

If you're on the market for an insertable vibrating egg, look no further than the CalExotics Wearable Love Egg Vibrator. This remote-controlled pick stimulates your G-spot with 12 delightful vibration settings that you can enjoy for up to 60 minutes per full charge. This toy is also waterproof, so feel free to get freaky in the tub.

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Looking for a panty vibrator? OhMiBod's BlueMotion Nex 1 can be used as a bullet vibrator, but its shape was designed to tuck comfortably into your underwear for clitoral stimulation anywhere you go. Your partner doesn't have to be around to control it, either. This clit massager can be paired to any smartphone from the OhMiBod Remote app, which allows users to control the settings anywhere on the planet. Whoever controls the panty vibrator can also create endless custom vibration patterns with the tap of a finger, which will make phone sex, sexting, and IRL moments steamier than ever.

This cheeky vibrator will send butterflies to your stomach with its intense, orgasm-inducing power. The Venus Butterfly Venus G is adorable, but its kitschy shape actually has a purpose. This remote-controlled vibrator's antennae stimulate the clitoris while the phallic end acts as a G-spot massager. You can peruse through 12 vibrating, pulsating, and intensity settings with or without the accompanying remote, which works up to 32.5 feet away — just close enough for some tantalizing foreplay with a partner.

Rabbit vibrators usually result in fumbling around to find the control buttons while they're inside you, which can be an annoying mood dampener. That's when Lovehoney's Hop Star Suction Cup Rabbit Vibrator steps in. Those who are looking for powerful vibrations with a rumbly feel should grab this remote-controlled rabbit, which provides G-spot stimulation with its penis-shaped end while the bunny ears rub your clit. On top of its 10 vibration modes, you can suction cup this vibrator to any surface and control it with the accompanying remote for hands-free riding.

Those with penises will have an out-of-body orgasm experience with the Hueman Black Hole Galactic Cock Ring and Butt Plug. This two-in-one penis ring and prostate massager takes anal play to a whole new level with its four vibration speeds and six patterns, plus it comes with a remote for effortless maneuvering. For a smooth ride, make sure you pair this vibrating butt plug with a water-based lube.

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Whether you're going out and about or Netflix and chilling, Mantric's Remote Control Panty Vibrator can be worn for a party in your pants. This whisper-silent, remote-controlled panty vibe has three speed modes and seven vibration patterns to enjoy privately or publicly — if you dare.

Happy Rabbit's Remote Control Cock Ring will always leave both receivers and givers sexually satisfied, thanks to its unique design. Just like the rest of the sex toys on this list, this rabbit-cock ring hybrid is made out of body-safe silicone, which allows it to stretch and fit comfortably around a penis. This cock ring also has rabbit ears to stimulate the receiver's clit. Its climax-inducing abilities are heightened by 10 vibration patterns and three speed settings that both partners will be thrilled by.

With Svakom's Ella Neo, you'll always have options in terms of how you control it. There are three ways you can play with its 10 vibration modes, either with the button on the egg, the button on the retrieval cord, or the brand's app.

Now you can have a pair of underwear dedicated to making you orgasm when you slip into the Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Panty. This thong comes with a bullet vibrator that provides 10 toe-curling vibration patterns to try. The bullet vibrator's sensations are intensified by the textured bullet holder, which also acts as a silicone clit massager. When you're with a partner, you can hand them the battery-powered remote to operate from up to 25 feet away.

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Deia's The Wearable has an innovative design that hugs your clit for more precise stimulation (and makes storage simple), but that's not the only reason why we're loving this wearable vibrator. It stimulates your G-spot and clit with 10 different vibration patterns, and it stays put during penetrative sex. As a bonus, the rechargeable remote can also be used as a bullet vibrator. Genius.

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